Distinctive Capabilities For Children At Home

" People might not know the purpose of his life , but he must know the steps to life”

I saw one person in the house my students really painstaking study . Until , he never took the time to play with their peers . Such a school demands a lot of make should linger in the room to transfer the info in the book into the brain or memory . I'm really sorry for the students . Why ? In one aspect , the students were indeed honed cognitive powers . But in other respects , he experienced paralysis imbalance or emotional ( affective ) . Life is like riding a bike , really need to protect the balance . If the balance is not maintained then it will fall .
See the students , I encourage the parents to help regulate the time , so he was locked in the room , just cool to play his friends . Which he does not realize , that the actual playing side of the system is also studied .
As we recognize , have real human creativity , taste and intention . Therefore , when only creativity ( IQ ) are sharpened , the balance does not take place . Then what takes place ? Certainly , the impact of education pattern that only melaluik emphasis on creativity ( cognitive / IQ ) alone as well as underestimating the taste ( affective / EQ ) and intention ( action ) would be looked at as well as when the child is growing up . The child 's social will be paralyzed . Why do I say lame social ? Ongoing social paralyzed when the child can not establish a tangle in the social environment . Although in fact , in every interaction on the people , both in the work of the association , the association organizations , socially at school and so definitely need to establish interwoven and work together with others . Furthermore, it can deter potential changes dianya .
Did we have become a fundamental necessity for human beings to work together equally . By working together , we actually open a lot of opportunities to learn a few things . Thus we can raise ourselves the opportunity to explore . Here lies the main associations and social relationships .
In the past , parents indeed directing their children to hone his IQ . Because , the high IQ inferred for the high level of intelligence as well ( as well as the recipe said to be successful if a high IQ ) . However , a new awareness that ultimately appears that there are other intelligences also can not be ignored , namely emotional intelligence .
Balance on cognitive intelligence ( knowledge ) , feeling ( affective ) and action ( action ) will wake up capability characteristics good self . The characteristics of self is very major role. Because the characteristics of self that is a step thought and behavior is typical of an individual to live and work together with the surrounding .
Sometimes, the traits themselves so there's a balance . There are people who have brilliant ideas but can not work together with teamworknya . It show the person has a good IQ intelligence emotional intelligence amid ugly . There are also people who have a brilliant brain , he is also good , but lazy to work . It show the action is weaker in its appeal IQ and EQ .
The characteristics of self- third would be even stronger if the terms are met . The characteristics of good self is going to really make sure the terms of retrieval systems , behave and move our thought . Which in turn will ensure our success . Just look, someone Nelson Mandela achieve world sympathy with peace inspiration . Mother Teresa shook the world with a sense of love and concern for each other . Bung Karno with inspiration , tenacity and intelligence remain so for us Indonesian people who have passed th . millennium .
Overall it is the form of the ability of the characteristics they possess. This confirms that , the characteristics of an individual ensure success . And according to the research , even a 80 % success defined by emotional intelligence , while intelligence intelegensianya acquire 20 % portion .
Ability wake Character
In self each individual has its own character . Environment has a major role in the formation characteristics . The characteristics we , have a major role in living systems . Because , the characteristics set our minds and our behavior , which certainly ensure success , we do live action , achieve obsession and finalize the issue .
Surely each of us has unique characteristics . As well , the peculiarities of the traits that are characteristic of our ability . Because of the peculiarities or idiosyncrasies that differentiate us with other individuals . The entertainer will spread the spirit , the regulator will manage the organization . They are wise and do not like conflict can be peacemakers . It was entirely the ability traits . As well , each of the traits will be needed in each association , good working relationships , organizations or persons .
Remember ! Ability characteristics must be built from scratch . Build the capacity of the traits can be done through education traits in both formal environment such as a school , or a family of non - formal as well as people . Educational characteristics are given through the cultivation of the values ​​traits . May take the form of knowledge , awareness or determination and action to those values ​​. Educational output traits will appear on both the fabric of creation of Almighty God , ourselves, others , the environment , the vast and so forth.
Educational characteristics not only given by way of theoretical in school , but also need to be applied in daily life . Until going to be routine . Routines that are obtained evidence that education has penetrated within a . When polite to eat , when to sleep reading the prayer , when out of the house to say goodbye , painstaking and embodied the spirit of obsession and expectations , be honest , be kind to animals and plants , do not dispose of litter and so on .
Build the capacity characteristics done by involving all the elements . Because , each element will have an influence in the formation of a system of individual characteristics . Someone will follow the child as well as to identify what is in the vicinity. Role of positive type traits will make a positive and negative kind of role would otherwise make keprbadian and negative traits . Therefore , each element should be built with the environment in a positive way , to the characteristics of children will be formed in a positive way as well .
So how do I get up capability traits that? Ability characteristics will be formed by itself when there is support and encouragement from the surrounding environment . Think of a stick no longer have the power to get rid of garbage . However , when it is supported by several hundred other stick will make the ability to clean the home page . Likewise with the characteristics , would be hard now supported by the environment . The role of family , school , people truly master the ability to support and wake characteristics .
The characteristics of strong action would further maximum in every social relationship . Until , individuals with strong traits that would give contrib - both moral or spiritual - powerful benefits to the surrounding .

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